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The IE Mommy Has Moved....

2009-03-27T13:13:00.000-07:00

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2009-03-20T12:19:00.000-07:00

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The IE Mommy is Moving.....

2009-02-11T12:34:00.000-08:00

I have had the hardest time trying to decide which blog would be best for me. Either wordpress or blogger...both have some great qualities and some um, not so great attributes.

But I just don't have the time to duplicate each and every post and I don't have the imagination or vocabulary to create two different blogs so I have finally made a decision.

I will be switching to wordpress. I will still keep this blog open but any active blogs, contests, updates, giveaways, etc. will be posted at The IE Mommy at wordpress. The URL will be http://www.iemommy.wordpress.com/ so please bookmark it.

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My God's Tale

2009-02-11T08:26:00.000-08:00

When I first read about the S.W.A.K. Carnival ...I just knew I had to join! What better thing to do then "brag" on my husband!

As a little girl, growing up, I was read all the wonderful fairytales with a charming prince and a beautiful princess....and each story always ended... "and they lived happily ever after".

As a teenager, every romance novel had a rebel-type guy with a heart of gold underneath and the pure love for only one special girl.

I remember reading those books and dreaming of my prince charming but I really didn't give it a lot of thought because the real world was very different. I knew people that were divorced and separated. I saw people that had 2 sets of families. I knew there was just too much heartache in marriage....I believed it would be a step that I would just bypass. Afterall, it just wasn't my train of thought to think about marriage and ever afters...I was going to be an independent, career-minded woman!

Awww....but God has different plans...sometimes far different then what we ever imagined.

(Jeremiah 29:11) I know the plans I have for you sayeth the Lord, plans for good not for evil. To give you a future and a hope.

I met my husband when I was a teenager. The easiest way to explain the bigging of our relationship is "Ego, Ego, Ego". Albeit as much as I want to say it was all my husband's ego...it wasn't :(

But what an amazing thing God can do when we allow Him to be the one in control. We have been together for a few decades plus and I sit A-M-A-Z-E-D!

I look at my husband and with out a doubt know he is my Prince Charming. He is the rebel in my teenage romance books with a true love for only one girl and most importantly he is the one God created for me.

My husband is my hero, my mentor, my best-friend, my partner, the love of my life, my prankster, my thorn in my side, my bear hugs, my encourager, my cheering squad, my protector, my angel.....

Every relationship has ups and downs, every marriage has moments of passion and moments of complete irriation...but it is what you do, and think during those times that will equip you for the next time. In our relationship we have tried to remember that a cord of three is not easily broken.

(Ecclesiastes 4:12 - A peson standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back to back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.)

I know there is no such thing as a "Perfect" person but in my heart of hearts...I know that my husband and I are "Perfect" for each other. God created us for each other and there isn't another person who could fit that place.

After all these years, I still get butterflies when I see him. I still stare into those blue eyes and melt and I still quiver at his kisses.

There is no way that I could express to you or to my husband how grateful I am to the Lord Jesus to have been given such a wonderful husband, such an amazing life, such incredible children and blessings that are way too many to count.

All I can say is...to the world..."Keep your Fairy Tales...I have a God's Tale"... and it is way more then I could have every dreamed or hoped for.

1 Timothy 1:14
The grace of our Lord was poured out on me abundantly, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus.

2 Peter 1:3
... God has given us everything we need for living a godly life. We have received all of this by coming to know him, the one who called us to himself by means of his marvelous glory and excellence.

1 Peter 3:7
[ Husbands ] In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.

Ephesians 5:25
For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her

S.W.A.K Carnival and ChicBud Giveaways!

2009-02-11T07:00:00.000-08:00

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-02-11T06:29:00.000-08:00

This is one my utmost, favorite pictures of all times. I love this shot. The colors are amazing and vibrant. Her pose is perfect....I can not say enough about this shot. Not because I took it or because it's my daughter...I just love it!

I had to share it on Wordless Wednesday. Swing by 5 Minutes for Mom to check out more photos and to join the fun!

Through the Eyes of A Child

2009-02-10T05:27:00.000-08:00

Isn't it funny how you can receive the most amazing words of wisdom from a child? They have this uncanny ability to appreciate all there is in life and to enjoy it to the fullest.

One afternoon we were leaving a store when Skylar just stopped walking. I look back and she is seemingly staring off into space. When I asked her what she was doing. She said, "Didn't you see it, Mama? A little moth. He was amazing!"

I had to pause for a moment to realize that through her eyes what I would have just swatted away as a nuisance was to her some magical mid-air dance.

The next day as we were getting dressed Skylar asked for help zipping her jacket. She jumped on the bed so she could be my height and was looking out the window while I concentrated on her stuck zipper.

"Mama, did you see our neighbor's yard?" She asked.

"Yes, it's pretty messy isn't it? I replied with out looking.

"No, it beautiful!" She replied in a whisper.

"What?" I replied half-listening as I was still struggling with her zipper.

"Look at the flowers Mama" She urged with awe in her voice.

I knew the yard she was referring to and well...how can we put it.... it is "landscaping challenged". I could not imagine a flower garden there. I went to the window and looked….she was right; kind of…in the middle of their overgrown grass was a large cluster of beautiful orange wildflowers.

Through my grown up eyes I had only seen the mess and tall grass. I totally missed the flowers that were indeed God's beautiful creation while Skylar totally caught the beauty and missed the mess.

I have seen Skylar staring at the stars with a serene look in her eyes and I wonder what her little mind is thinking. I am proud of her sweet spirit and happy that she shares these discoveries with me.

I only hope I never forget what she has unknowingly reminded me of….there is beauty in everything; it just depends on how you look at it.

The Circle of Life = Motherhood

2009-02-09T05:20:00.000-08:00

I began to think about all the wonderful women that I know who are embarking on the journey of motherhood… for some it will be a brand new experience and for others…they are seasoned veterans.

But the reality of it does not change. Being a mom is being all that you can possibly be at every possible minute. William Ross Wallace wrote "…For the hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world…"

For some women motherhood comes naturally. It is something that they have progressed toward all their lives. For others, (like me) it will be a bit of a journey.

I never grew up playing with baby dolls and strollers. I had them and I enjoyed them but I wanted to play with the "fashion dolls" and their super cars and planes. I loved the fancy clothes and each and every career that was imagined for them.

As a young adult….marriage and motherhood were far from my thoughts…but God had a different plan…one that leaves me in amazement each and every day. I haven't had an uninterrupted shower since my daughters were born, quiet time in the bathroom is like a mini-vacation, my hands have aged decades due to all the dishes. I have changed diapers that number in the 1000's and I can recite each and every character on the Backyardigans, Dora the Explorer, Miss Spider and Spongebob (just to name a few).

Yes, this is not the jet-set life I imagined…but it is so much more and so much better than any "dream" I could have ever had.

Only a mom knows the expression and joy on a waking child's face when they see you first thing in the morning. Only a mom knows the pride she feels when she holds her child's hand and hears them say "Thank you" and "Please". It is my name they call out in the middle of the night or when they are scared or sick. It is a Mom that can keep the boogeyman away and the dreams alive.

Moms are not only the first teachers but the first doctors, the first pastors, the first "everything!" They are the ones that know their children from the very depths of their souls.

Each mom is different, each mother has her own ways…but it really does not matter if you are a "Green" mom or a "Fast-food" mom. What matters is that you are "Mom" and to your little ones you will be the World!

W.R. Wallace was right. Through our little ones we shape the world. We form the world for them and for those they encounter in life….what an incredible blessing and responsibility.

I am so glad God had a different plan for me and I look forward to the plan He has for each of my dear friends…

Blast from the Past and Recycled Colds

2009-02-09T04:37:00.000-08:00

Well...it happened. It was bound to happen. It was inevitable...I am sick. The twins have been sick for over a week. Our last trip to the doctor managed to get them a new, stronger antibiotic and an inhaler.

It appears that now I have whatever yuck they had....hopefully I'll recover quickly. I am pounding away with vitamins, humidifiers and everything else I can find..

So bear with me this week as we review some "Blast from the Past" blogs.....if you've read them before...I hope they still make you smile.

If you have never read them...Welcome to my world!

Sweet & Simple

2009-02-08T05:00:00.000-08:00

As much as I strive to be the Proverbs 31 women...I do not have chef quality cooking skills. As I like to say my family gets fed I just don't enjoy it! What can I say cooking is not my gift. Which is why I love Kraft Foods.com. This is about as simple a receipe as you can find and it sounds yummy!

What You Need

1 can (16 oz.) pear slices, drained
8 NILLA Wafers, crushed
1/2 cup thawed COOL WHIP Whipped Topping
1/8 tsp. ground cinnamon

Make It

SPOON pears into 4 dessert bowls.

SPRINKLE with wafer crumbs.

COMBINE COOL WHIP and cinnamon; spoon over desserts.

Too Old to Be Cool?

2009-02-07T02:00:00.000-08:00

I grew up in the 80's. I'll wait for you to stop giggling....done? Good...now stroll with me to the land of big hair, Aquanet, hot pink lipstick, and high heels with bobby socks. For the record...I never, ever wore socks with my heels!

As every generation has ... we had terms that were only for the 80's. Does Rad, Tough, Awesome and Totally ring any bells? Sadly I still say "awesome" all the time. Not because of the 80's but really because I think so many things in life are "awesome" (do not read this with a valley-girl accent!). My husband never loses a chance to remind me that I am not in the 80's when I say that word. But never mind him. I know that I also use "amazing" quite often but I like it and I'm keeping it!

But try as I might there are words that just do not sound right coming out of my mouth. Words like "tight" or "BFF"...I am not sure when I became old but I feel completely uncool (omg, who even says "uncool" anymore) trying to say those words. I recently read that the newest slang word was "amajor" which is supposed to combine amazing and major. Since I use "amazing" so much I thought I'd give it a try.

I sounded like a geek, a dork, a dweeb.....quite frankly....like an old lady trying to be cool!

I'm sad! Really, I am .... because I am so cool that I should be able to say these words with out a problem. Yeah, right...mabye when I was 18.....I have to laugh because I have no idea when I became this old but here I am!

It's okay.....someday I sure that "rad" and "totally" will come back again and then I'll be the "it" girl once more....well....at least I will be in my geriatric ward!

Let Your Chest Speak For You

2009-02-07T01:00:00.000-08:00

I found another fun contest and just had to share! Check out the fantastic offer from Inspiretees.com

Click on the button below to learn more about the contest and to enter!

The Professor of Protection

2009-02-06T06:15:00.000-08:00

Ever wonder what you could do to safeguard checks that you write? The innocence of writing and "dropping" it in the mail with out a worry has long passed. Check out what the Professor of Protection teaches us on safeguarding our checks.

How Thieves Make $300 in Under 4 Minutes

How Quickly We Can Fade.....

2009-02-06T04:15:00.000-08:00

I know that "everyone" has been so excited that the movie Fireproof is out. In fact, I blogged about Kirk Cameron recently. Because of this I wanted to share an amazing video that is from YouTube but I found it on Been there, Done that...

It had me crying!

I'm Trying to Remember....

2009-02-05T05:45:00.000-08:00

Yesterday in my devotional, For Every Season Vol.3 by Greg Laurie...he spoke of how important it is to know God's word.

I couldn't agree more. It is those same verses and words that the Holy Spirit will bring forth in our time of need. Maybe it is in a time when we are sharing our faith or perhaps teaching little ones at Sunday school. It may be a more intense time of a Spiritual battle or trial....but the promise that His word will never return void is one to take to the bank.

I don't have a problem remembering God's word but I do have difficulty in remembering chapter and verse. As much as I hate to admit it...I know that I am not alone in this struggle.

I wanted to take a moment to share a verse that I have memorized in my mind and heart and it won't leave...nor do I ever want it to. It is my life verse. I must remind myself consistently that Jesus Christ is at the beginning, middle and end of my journey wherever it may take me

Jeremiah 29:11

"I know the plans I have for you sayeth the Lord. Plans for good not for evil; to give you a future and a hope"

Praise God that His plans are much better for me then my greatest dreams. It is in His hands that I can find comfort, direction and guidance.

So...what about you? What is your life verse or verse that is speaking to you right now?

Horsin' Around #52

2009-02-04T14:10:00.001-08:00

I have sick children at home which is why I am blogging away. I have to stay near them and quite frankly can not sit through one more round of Pinky Dinky Doo or Miss Spider (regardless of how much I love Miss Spider).

So as they are content to watch cartoons sipping lemon with honey and wrapped in their blankies...I am keeping busy within the scope of the family room and the kitchen.

By the time they get well (it has been a week already)...I will have probably posted a zillion blogs, have a spotless floor, clean cupboards and not a dish in the sink....yeah...well...ok, reality...probably just the blogs will get done, lol.

Anyway...look what I found!

Swing on by 5 Minutes for Mom and sign up to enter your "Best" photo. The theme is "horsing around". I've signed up, linked my blog and now here is my photo. In case you are wondering which twin it is :::: drumroll:::: it 's Skylar!

Swing by and enter your best "horsing around" shot...tell them The IE Mommy sent ya!

Sex & Marriage? Yes, they go together!

2009-02-04T05:35:00.000-08:00

Ladies, I have just found out about two super fun challenges going on in honor of Valentine's Day. Now as much as I love all you single women out there...these challenges are for the married ladies ONLY!

Check it out...could add a little spice to your "gift" this year!

Click on either button to learn more about the challenges. Remember ladies, these don't have to be done only for Valentine's day...what a great anniversary, birthday or just any time idea.

Wordless Wednesday

2009-02-04T04:15:00.000-08:00

Love this idea! It was something I did back on the Mom Squad at Inland Empire Family Magazine. I ran across the idea again and thought I'd join the fun!

Wordless Wednesday....a day where we let a picture speak for us.

This is one of my current favorite pictures. Each year at Christmas we have a "White Elephant" gift exchange. This year, like last year, the twins were so excited about their "gift" that they didn't want to exchange them at all...in fact Skylar loved her hat so much she wore it the entire day AND had uncle (the one who brought that White Elephant gift) find another one for sister!

Check out more Wordless Wednesday at 5 Minutes for Mom.

Spotlight on "The Sassy Chic Shop"

2009-02-03T06:01:00.000-08:00

Every now and then you run across a business or person that is so extra ordinary that you really need to stand up and applaud them. I am 100% behind mom run businesses. Whether you have a store front, eBay site, on-line site or work from home. My hats off to you !

In this train of thought I'd like to present to you our first "Spotlight Site". In each spotlight I will provide you with an interview, site review and product review. I hope you'll join me in visiting these sites and supporting them with our business.

The Sassy Chic Shop is owned by Katie Newman. She is a fantastic person, with great taste for the unique, classy and different. I had the opportunity to ask Katie a couple of questions during a recent interview.

Katie, when did you start your business?
I started working from home on the internet several years ago but The Sassy Chic Shop is a new boutique that just opened.

What was the inspiration behind starting your business?
My inspiration for starting this shop was my love for all things girly and fun! I love unique jewelry, funky purses and other fabulous accessories

Tell us a little about yourself and your family?
I am happily married to a wonderful hubby. I have two beautiful children. One is about to become a teenager and the other one is six. We also have three dogs and we live in a suburb of Houston, Texas.

What is your favorite thing(s) about your business?
My favorite thing about my business is choosing the items to sell. I love seeking out unique pieces that I don't think you can find just anywhere. I also love being able to work at midnight if I want!

I hear you have a special promotion ONLY for IE Mommy readers?
Yes, IE Mommy readers can recieve a 15% discount on any purchase at Sassy Chic; just email me first.

SITE REVIEW:
When you first visit The Sassy Chic Shop you can not help but notice the adorable boutique style motif of the site. Visually, it has a very pleasant decor with a bit of spunk and style and a lot of class. You are not overwhelmed by flash when you first enter. You can find everything from pet supplies to jewelry and fashion. There is a lot to look at and to browse through. My favorite site page was the Sassy Chic Queen. Needless to say I fell in love with the Crown tote and the Sassy Queen broach. I found the site easy to manage, well organized and well formatted. The contact pager and the feedback page were an added bonus for the consumer. Overall Grade: A

PRODUCT REVIEW:
Silver Pray Stackable Bracelet
Price: $11.95 (Sale $7.95)
This bracelet was a great find. Silvertone strechable braclet engraved with the word "pray" around the entire bracelet and accented with a filigree style design. I favored this product because 1) it was affordable 2) it was stylish 3) It was stretchable to fit any size wrist and 4) It reminded of something valuable to do daily..."pray". It arrived sweetly packaged in a light pink organza bag. Perfect and ready for gift giving.
Overall Grade: A

IE MOMMY Says:
I would definitely keep this bracelet and The Sassy Chic Shop in mind the next time I need a birthday gift. The items were so unique and prices were very affordable. I spent some time browsing and dreaming while at her site. Plus the 15% off discount makes a lot of items v-e-r-y tempting. Swing by and enjoy shopping.

P.S. If you know of a mom-owned business that you'd like to see in the spotlight. Email me at theiemommy (at) gmail DOT com.

An Interview with Kirk Cameron of Fire Proof

2009-02-02T01:00:00.000-08:00

The world was hit by an incredible bolt of lightening recently and unless you've been under a rock then you have heard about it. It was FIREPROOF starring Kirk Cameron.

To say that this movie is a regular story about marriage would be an understatement (in the very least). FireProof will speak to any one that is married or single. It is an amazing example of how easily we can forget what is truly important in life.

My husband and I are honored to be hosting a showing of Fireproof in our home in about a week...so I was very excited to find this interviewed podcast with Kirk Cameron. For those of you who aren't aware of the movie take a look at this trailer:

While Kirk Cameron grew up during his role as Mike Seaver in Growing Pains it as a man of God that he has truly found his calling. I have to admit I wasn't much a Growing Pains fan. At the time Growing Pains was aired I was a little too old to be interested in pubescent sitcoms. None the less I was aware of Kirk and his fame. But when I saw this movie with my husband I was blown away...there stood before a man that was truly demonstrating his convictions and relationship with Christ. I knew that he had accomplished great work with the Left Behind Series and The Way of the Master but I wasn't prepared for the impact this movie would have on myself or other viewers.

Since viewing the film I have since purchased the Love Dare book and Still Growing which is an autobiography written by Kirk Cameron. I was not disappointed in what I read. I truly believe this is a man and woman sold for Jesus. What a testimony for those of us who struggle to stand up for our faith in our own little world and for those of us who struggle within our marriage (and if you are honest, you probably have been both of those people at sometime in your life)

Take a moment to list to this interview from 5 Minutes for Mom. It is wonderful to hear his voice, heart and soul regarding the movie, his family and his Lord.

FireProof Interview with Kirk Cameron [8:43m]: Hide Player Play in Popup Download

The DVD was realeased on January 27th. As Kirk mentions it would be a perfect gift for someone you love at Valentine's Day.

Kurt Warner...

2009-02-01T11:51:00.000-08:00

I don't know if you have ever heard this story but I thought it was most fitting consider he is playing in today's Super Bowl XLIII

and so the story goes....

KURTIS THE STOCK BOY & BRENDA THE CHECKOUT GIRL

In a supermarket, Kurtis the stock boy, was busily working when a new voice came over the loud speaker asking for a carry out at register 4. Kurtis was almost finished and wanted to get some fresh air, and decided to answer the call.

As he approached the check-out stand a distant smile caught his eye, the new check-out girl was beautiful. She was an older woman (maybe 26, and he was only 22) and he fell in love.

Later that day, after his shift was over, he waited by the punch clock to find out her name. She came into the break room, smiled softly at him, took her card and punched out, then left. He looked at her card, BRENDA.

He walked out only to see her start walking up the road. Next day, he waited outside as she left the supermarket, and offered her a ride home. He looked harmless enough, and she accepted. When he dropped her off, he asked if maybe he could see her again, outside of work. She simply said it wasn't possible.

He pressed and she explained she had two children and she couldn't afford a baby-sitter, so he offered to pay for the baby-sitter. Reluctantly she accepted his offer for a date for the following Saturday. That Saturday night he arrived at her door only to have her tell him that she was unable to go with him. The baby-sitter had called and canceled. To which Kurtis simply said, "Well, let's take the kids with us."

She tried to explain that taking the children was not an option, but again not taking no for an answer, he pressed.

Finally Brenda, brought him inside to meet her children. She had an older daughter who was just as cute as a bug, Kurtis thought, then Brenda brought out her son, in a wheelchair. He was born a paraplegic with Down Syndrome.

Kurtis asked Brenda, "I still don't understand why the kids can't come with us?" Brenda was amazed. Most men would run away from a woman with two kids, especially if one had disabilities - just like her first husband and father of her children had done. Kurtis was not ordinary --- he had a different mindset.

That evening Kurtis and Brenda loaded up the kids, went to dinner and the movies. When her son needed anything Kurtis would take care of him. When he needed to use the restroom, he picked him up out of his wheelchair, took him and brought him back. The kids loved Kurtis. At the end of the evening, Brenda knew this was the man she was going to marry and spend the rest of her life with.

A year later, they were married and Kurtis adopted both of her children. Since then they have added two more kids.

So what happened to Kurtis the stock boy and Brenda the check-out girl? Well Mr. & Mrs. Kurt Warner now live in Arizona, where he is currently employed as the quarterback of the National Football League Arizona Cardinals and has his Cardinals in the hunt for a possible appearance in the Super Bowl. Is this a surprise ending or could you have guessed that he was not an ordinary person.

It should be noted that he also quarterbacked the Rams in Super Bowl XXXVI. He has also been the NLF's Most Valuable Player twice and the Super Bowl's Most Valuable Player.

Yep, Kurt Warner is a Most Special Man...

Superbowl Sunday

2009-02-01T10:39:00.000-08:00

Ok, I am not going to even pretend to know a thing about football. Yes, I know the basics but when refs start throwing colored flags and the quarterbacks and coaches call out plays...well, I'm lost! I don't know the difference between a first down or a first and ten.

But here is what I do know:

I love my husband and if he wants to watch football today on Superbowl Sunday we are going to watch football (...I might be looking at a magazine...just a wee bit!)
I know the Steelers are playing against the Cardinals
I know "our" team is the Cardinals.
I know Kurt Warner plays for the Cardinals and he is a Christian
I know "they" thought Kurt was "dried up" as a player and he's proven them wrong (again)
I know if you go to About.com you can learn all about football terminology.
I know that if you go to the official NFL site...you could impress your man with some great trivia, highlights or information on the game.
I know that it is Superbowl XLIII
and most importantly I know that as a wife...this is a day I can give him without arguments, chores or fighting for the remote.

So to my wonderful hubby....
"Todd, enjoy it love...you deserve the day off"

Nominate ME!

2009-01-31T18:46:00.000-08:00

So...maybe I am bit competitive...but I really enjoy competition. I have to admit that I am a bit of a perfectionist (ok, so those that really know me may not believe the "bit" part).

Anyway.....I saw this contest and thought it would be awesome to be a participant. But, I need your help...if you like my blog, The IE Mommy, or were a fan of the Mom Squad at Inland Empire Family Magazine then please nominate me!

If you'd like to support me in this endeavor please nominate http://www.iemommy.wordpress.com I know that I have a blog on blogspot and wordpress but I figured it would be best to stick to one.

Just click on the link below to go to the nomination page and THANKS!!!

Calling All Mommies of Little Girls....

2009-01-31T17:35:00.001-08:00

I told you I love contests! Having twin daughters is the most amazing thing. All the bows, ribbons, dresses....Yikes! When I saw this contest I immediately thought of two adorable little baby girls at church and knew I just had to post this for them and for you!

Whether they are a daughter, neighbor, grand-daughter, niece, etc. I am confident you'd want to enter this contest!

(Jannae - you'd better enter, lol)

5 Minutes for Mom
Click the link above to enter the contest
for Little Miss Clips hair clips

and The Winner is......

2009-01-31T08:04:00.000-08:00

Congratulations to KELLIE WELLS!
You have won your choice of scarves from Penny's Pieces!
Swing on by the GetTheCrown Webstore and choose your scarf!

Drop me a line with your address and choice and The IE Mommy will get it out you right away!

Thanks to everyone that played.....we'll have another giveaway very, very soon!

In fact, keep your eyes open for our Sensational Giveaway for February from CHIC BUDS! Awesome earphones. Two winners will each receive a pair of Chic Bud Earphones ($45.00 value!)

**Winner has 10 days to claim prize or prize will be forfeited**

Poop and Pee (Yes, you read right!)

2009-01-30T09:45:00.000-08:00

Well, the honeymoon is so over it's not even funny. No, I'm not talking about with my husband...I'm talking about our dog, Lilie.

It appears little Miss Lilie has overstayed her welcome. We are actively looking for a home...preferably, one with out kids. Lilie is a sweet, adorable little dog. But, she has one big flaw... she doesn't have once once of interest in my children!

The twins have begged, almost since birth, for a dog. We were so sure and confident that Lilie was the dog for us. We really wanted our little one to feel loved. We spared no expense on her bed, food, clothes (yes, clothes), shots and treats. Sadly, she can not stand the twins. She wants absolutely nothing to do with them. When she does interact with them she makes sure they realize "she" is the alpha dog by nipping at their heels and barking. She loves me and she loves my husband. She will sit quietly, snuggle and follow us around all day. It is a big No Way if Rylan and Skylar try and get in on the love.

This sweet little dog has been a bone of contention (no pun intended) for my husband and myself. I have tried to postpone having to get rid of her in the hopes that she'll fall in love with our daughters. He thinks I am just being too easy and not wanting to make the tough decision (He may be right, but shh! Don't you dare tell him!)

One weekday morning after an argument, uh conversation, about getting rid of Lilie I walked downstairs to find that Lilie had left me a little "gift" that morning! Oh yeah! Needless to say this little present took me over my "ticked-off" limit and I was happily grumbling under my breath.

Now....as you may know once you get a woman grumbling...well, the topics will vary from the dog to the house to the husband and back again. I was working myself up. I was so glad, at that moment, that my husband was at work.

I didn't realize that Rylan was standing in the hallway as I was grumbling about having to pick up poop and pee. She interrupted my thoughts when she asked me: "Why poop and pee, mama?"

"What" I replied

"Why is it poop and pee?" "Why both? I only see poop."

"Because it there is one, there has to be the other. Poop and pee go together" I explained.

"Oh, like husbands and wives!" She remarked gleefully.

Oh! Snap! She was right on. On more levels that I wanted to admit. I laughed till my sides hurt. I laughed even harder when I saw the bewildered look on her face.

My grumpy mood left like a ... (oh heck, I haven't a clue "what" it left like...) but I did call my husband and he laughed as hard as I did. It was exactly the laugh we needed.

Oh, and by the way...anyone want a dog?

I Am In Love...

2009-01-29T06:00:00.000-08:00

With a broom. Yes, you read it right. I am madly and deeply in love with my new friend.

It is a Dirt Devil Cordless Broom Vacuum!! Oh, I am so in love with this thing...I just can’t stop smiling!

You know when I was a young bride...I never, ever in my wildest dreams thought that I’d ever get excited about any kitchen appliances. I remember strictly warning my “new” husband that there would be consequences if he even considered buying me a kitchen or household appliance as a gift.

Well...I still do not want him buying me any type of household or appliance as a gift. Sheesh, that’s what jewelry is for.....BUT...I can buy my own and I am so, so happy that I did.

My niece told me about this incredible product a few weeks ago. I didn’t get too excited because they cost in the price range of $60 - $70 dollars. I thought that was a bit much for a “broom”. It did not cross my mind to look for one because I knew that I was not going to pay that kind of money for a broom.

When I went to visit my second home, um...I mean, Target....I noticed they had one in the clearance section marked down to $17.99! Whoa, from $69.99 to $17.99! I thought maybe there was something wrong with it since the box was opened but when I looked further in that aisle they had a whole bunch of them....all for only $17.99!!!

So I snatched one up and rushed home to plug it in. It works like a dream! We have birds and there is always birdseed on my floor....not right now. Even the twins wanted to sweep.

The only drawback is that it is bit heavy in comparison to a regular broom. But well, just figure you’ll have nicely shaped arms by summer time!

I am just giddy with excitement! I checked Target.com for you and they do have them but they are not on clearance....go figure. So, swing by your local Target and let me know if you find one too!

I’ve got to go run and sweep..... (uh, did I say that?)

Check Out This Contest.....

2009-01-28T17:55:00.000-08:00

Fun, Fun, Fun.....I love contests. I love to have them, I like to participate in them and I love to win!

Ok, so I really don't have any control in winning them but check this one out...you'll have fun and Good Luck! Click on the link to her blog below and you're all set!

N Her Shoes

Great Sites? LMK!!!

2009-01-28T05:50:00.000-08:00

I spent most of Monday morning searching for websites that would be beneficial to you. As parents and as women. I didn't intend to overlook the men but I figured that most of my readers were women so I searched for sites that would have an interest to women.

I managed to find some fun sites on fashion, a couple of great sites from pastors and a site I never really heard of before...but it seemed interesting enough...so I added it.

I want to hear what sites you love. What do you have bookmarked and what do you go back to over and over?

Help me to make the IE Mommy a blog that has a wide selection of resources for you! If you post a blog or have a friend or family member that posts a blog...give them a shout out here.

Please make sure that all sites are family friendly and G-rated! Our goal at the IE Mommy is to always glorify God in our journey to becoming better moms, wives and women!

Can't wait to see what you'll come up with!

ICE That Will Save Your Life

2009-01-27T20:25:00.001-08:00

What's up with ICE?

I'm not talking about diamonds (aka Ice)...I am definitely not talking about ice cream or Vanilla Ice...nope, I'm talking about a specific ICE that will save your life.

Haven't a clue? Check out the Professor of Protection....and you'll see what I am talking about!

FINALLY! Pictures of Prizes are Up!

2009-01-27T06:00:00.001-08:00

Photo Editor

Finally, the pictures of the scarves are ready for viewing! My goodness that was an ordeal getting my camera back. I left it at my moms and the way my schedule has been... I didn't have the opportunity to swing by and get it. I asked my niece to bring it to me and she forgot...Then I forgot and so on and so.....

I am so sorry! What fun is a contest if we can't see what we'll win, right?

Ok....well if you will forgive me enough to enter...I'll be very happy!

Click on the link below to view the photos of the scarves that are currently available to win! The Winner will be able to choose the scarf of their choice! Mailed directly to them courtesy of The IE Mommy and Penny's Pieces!

Of course, all other scarves are available for purchase!

I love winning stuff, don't you??? Enter today!

GetTheCrown Webstore!

Reading With My Heart

2009-01-27T06:00:00.000-08:00

Philippians 4:10-14

10 How I praise the Lord that you are concerned about me again. I know you have always been concerned for me, but you didn’t have the chance to help me 11 Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. 12 I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. 13 For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength. 14 Even so, you have done well to share with me in my present difficulty.

I read this verse the other day and it spoke to me so deeply that I can not quite explain my sentiments about it clearly but I will try.

When I read it...it was in one quick moment I was able to see Paul for who he was... a man, alone ,but with a faith in Jesus so strong that the act of being alone never really was “alone”.

On various ocassions throughout the New Testament you read of Paul with a companion but so often in his writing he is singular, a man on a mission to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ, a man filled with the Spirit.

In the beginning of his ministry he was considered “untrustworthy” by the believers (after all, this was the man who was considered the arch-enemy of Christians during the early church. He was the terrible Saul of Tarsus). Before his conversion his entire mission in life was to annihilate the Christians. He had gone as far as requesting permission to bring back any follower of the “Way” for persuction! Is it any wonder that the Christians did not trust him? Would you? (Acts 9:1)

Once Saul became a believer his name was changed to Paul and then the leaders of the synagogues and the high priest no longer wanted anything to do wtih him. He was now considered unreliable and a traitor. (Acts 9)

I thought about the first verse (verse 10) and in my heart I felt his joy that the Philippians were thinking about him. He knew they were always concerncend and cared for him...but once again they were expressing their concern for Him. (Phil 4:15-17).

How many times in our lives do we need the encouragment of friends and family. People to come up beside us, people that are willing to pray for us and with us. What an amazing feeling it is to have our burdens lifted by our brothers and sisters in Christ. I have experienced this and am forever grateful for the people in my life who have been willing to be “Jesus” to me when I have been in need. I wonder if that joy is not what caused Paul to write that statement. You know in modern times...it might have read “Hey, guys....it is so awesome that you called me. Man, I’ve missed talking to you. No, I totally understand your busy me too!”

Then true to Paul’s character...he reminds them in verses 11, 12 & 13. That he is able to do everything in Christ’s power and strength. That he has learned to be content with whatever he has a little or a lot.

I want to be like that...I want to relish my friendships and learn to be a confidant to my family and friends. I want to be able to be happy with my friends and family in the ‘moment’. Whatever that may be.

But more then that I want to be like Paul and be able to say I have Jesus and that’s all I need. Once again, I read his reply a bit differently, with my heart. I hear him saying “Hey friends, I’m glad to see you but don’t worry about me. Don’t feel guilty for not visting or writing. I am ok. I am fine. Jesus has walked with me every step of the way and I am alright”

I want to be “alright”. When my friendships are fertile, active and plentiful and when there is no one around but me and the Lord. I want to be alright.

I believe with all my heart that the Lord wants us to treasure our earthly relationships. To grow and learn from them. To encourage each other, to pray for each other and to lean on one another...but ultimately he want us to say: “Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am” (Phil 4:13 - The Message)

The Professor is Starting Class!

2009-01-26T06:00:00.000-08:00

You know as I write this I truly am thinking of each of you as a “friend”. People that I care for and pray for....friends...not readers, not numbers.

It is with that heart that I want to share a “gem” of a treasure that I found recently. The site is called Professor of Protection. I encourage each of you swing by and visit this site. In fact, I’d suggest bookmarking the site and joining the e-mail alerts.

I have been reading these blogs for a while now and have found a wealth of information on how I can better protect my family and home. Things that the criminals of the world know about and “little ‘ole me” didn’t have a clue!

We live in a world that is so unstable. We consistently read of horrific stories in the newspaper or hear them on television. It is so easy to think “Well, these things wouldn’t ever happen to me”. I know it is, because I’ve said that to myself!

The Professor of Protection site has been created by a man that has over 20+ years experience in various aspects of law enforcement, is a licensed private investigator, family man and a CHRISTIAN! (Believe me, I know this because I’m married to him!) His whole idea behind his site was to keep his wife, children and extended family safer in this crazy world.

I don’t want anyone walking around fearfully, nor do I want them ever, ever to underestimate the saving power of Jesus...but I do think we need to educate ourselves to what the thieves, murderers, crooks and kidnappers of the world are thinking.

We must learn to fight in spirit and in wisdom. Practically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and with knowledge.

If I hear an “Amen” then I urge you to stay in the word and to be strong in Christ. But I also encourage you to check out this site, join it and learn what our “enemy” really is up too.

Did you know they can photocopy your keys from a digital photo now??? Pretty scary thought, huh?

Check out the Professor’s site and learn what to be aware of. Since I know the “Professor” so well...I am doubly excited for what he has in store to share with you because I know what is coming to his site in the future.

FAMILY

2009-01-25T06:00:00.001-08:00

I received this via email today and it really touched a cord with me. I wanted to share it with you as well. I know that I am guilty of sometimes being too busy to realize what it truly important.

FA M I L Y

I ran into a stranger as he passed by,

"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.

He said, "Please excuse me too;

I wasn't watching f or you."

We were very polite, this stranger and I.

We went on our way and we said goodbye.

But at home a different story is told,

How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

Later that day, cooking the evening meal,

My son stood beside me very still.

When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.

"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.

He walked away, his little heart broken.

I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.

While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said,

"While dealing with a stranger,

common courtesy you use,

but the family you love, you seem to abuse.

Go and look on the kitchen floor,

You'll find some flowers there by the door.

Those are the flowers he brought for you.

He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.

He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,

you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes"

By this time, I felt very small,

And now my tears began to fall.

I quietly went and knelt by his bed;

"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.

"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"

He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.

I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.

I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."

I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;

I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."

He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.

I love you anyway."

I said, "Son, I love you too,

and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

Let Go Monkey!

2009-01-24T06:00:00.000-08:00

Recently at women's bible study one of the ladies shared the process of how they catch monkeys. It seems that the poachers will create a little box that has a tiny hole the perfect size for the monkey's hand. Inside the box will be a yummy treat for the monkey.

When the monkey reaches in and grabs the treat his "closed" fist is now too big to fit back through the hole. The monkey never thinks to "Let Go" of his treat and therefore gets captured.

It quickly became a joke for the group but we were not oblivious to the example it presented to us as Christians.

How many times in our life do we "reach" for something that is not good for us...not God's will in our life and when God's say "let go" we don't want to?

Sometimes I think we are a lot like this monkey...we only see our treat...we see what is yummy and our short sightedness "captures" us. We have the tendency as human beings to only see what is directly in front of us...especially if it is something that we desire.

Satan consistently tempts us with the Lust of the Flesh and the Lust of the Eyes. It is not a new trick. He used the same technique on Eve in the garden.

Genesis 3:6 (NLT)
The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her.

Granted he doesn't always tempt us with something obvious but the temptations are there none the less. What exactly is temptation? A Wordnet search defines temptation as:

something that seduces or has the quality to seduce

the desire to have or do something that you know you should avoid; "he felt the temptation and his will power weakened"

enticement: the act of influencing by exciting hope or desire; "his enticements were shameless"

Temptation isn't always something detrimental like addictions or indiscretions. If you are like me you think of a temptation as something so sinister it shouldn't be spoken of during the day.

But reality is there are tempations all around us. Anything that has the power to keep our eyes off the Lord or our hearts away from the Lord is a temptation. We can not allow ourselves to be like Peter and take our eyes off the Lord or His will, guidance and direction in our life.

Matthew 14:29b-31 (NIV)
... Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, "Lord, save me!"
Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. "You of little faith," he said, "why did you doubt?"

It was exactly when Peter took his eyes OFF the Lord that He began to sink. Not the moment before when his eyes were firmly affixed on Jesus. In God's graciousness it tells us that immediately Jesus reached out to Peter and saved him.

New shoes, a new car, the latest and greatest fashion accessory or tech toy....even the amazing sales at Gymboree complete with Gymbucks can be a temptation which would and could take our eyes off the Lord.

Do you think about it? Do you obsess over it? Do you wake up wondering what is going on with "that" world or with "that" item. Then, my friends, that is a temptation. Temptations are not always of the caliber of looking for your next hit or flirting too hard with the box girl/boy.

Satan doesn't generally work in huge, firework displays of temptation...at least not a first. His method of operation is generally very subtle, very sly and very simple...it is the end outcome that is usally a big fireworks display...because that is when we realize how far away from God we have moved. That is when our eyes are opened when we are captured.

John 8:44
You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Jesus understands our temptation and through it all He has provided a way for us to be strong. His Spirit lives freely within us and it is in that power that we must meet the temptations in our life.

Ephesians 6:16-18
In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints.

Stay alert my friends for our enemy is out there and he is constantly looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). We do not want to be like the Monkey and be captured within our own lust, greed and shortsightedness. So let go monkey, let go!

I Was On The Radio!

2009-01-23T07:00:00.000-08:00

We had a blast on Saturday! We had the wonderful opportunity to be a part of the "Let's Dine Out Show" with Allan Borgen!

Allan is the food critic with 590 AM (KTIE). They are a local radio station located out of San Bernardino. Lots of great talk shows with a conservative side.

My husband met Allan a few weeks ago and after some conversation was invited to go to dinner to critique a local restaurant. Of course, my wonderful hubby took me along! Woohoo FREE food, lol.

We went to the Mill Creek Cattle Company. It is in Mentone and was such a wonderful restaurant. Very kid friendly, very relaxed and very, very yummy. I am totally dying to go back.!

My utmost favorite things were the Dixie Chicken, The Pear Salad and the Onion Sticks....YUMMY!

Everyone at the radio station was a blast and very friendly. We had the opportunity to meet some great people that day. During the time we were there we were introduced to Chefs, Travel Execs, Cruise Ship Management and of course, the wonderful Jeff Williams (Allan's co-host).

I am hoping that we didn't sound too dumb. You know like those people on the news they interview after a big 5-car pile up... "Uh...yeah, um, yeah like there were 5 cars and they crashed, um, uh, and...." Get what I mean.

I guess it's too late if we did huh?

Being on the radio was fun...I want to do it again. I wonder if I could convince Allan and Jeff to have a "Mommy" segment or maybe a "Best Spas in the IE" show. Oh, I could so be willing to "sacrifice" for that.

If you'd like to hear our segment just click "HERE".
We were on during the 1st hour on January 17Th. You'll have to scroll to the very end if you just want to hear our part or you can listen to the entire thing...they are really funny and a great team!

Friends...listen up..if you have a chance to go to that restaurant...one word..."GO"

It is pretty cool to be able to say that I was on the radio and I can't "Thank" Allan and Jeff enough for allowing us the opportunity to do so!

It rocked guys and so do you!

Playhouse Disney Live? More like Dead!

2009-01-22T07:00:00.000-08:00

My husband has been dying to visit the new arena in Ontario, Citizen's Bank Arena so when he had the chance to purchase "Playhouse Disney" live tickets he was excited to do so for the twins.

We have been anticpating this event for a long time. It would have all of the great Disney characters like Mickey, Minnie, Goofy and Donald. Plus, the new fun characters like The Little Einsteins, Handy Manny and My Friends, Tigger & Pooh!

Right after church on Sunday we rushed home, had lunch and changed for the fun day we were expecting. The twins wore adorable, boutique style Minnie Mouse overalls. Sadly, I have to say I didn't sew these but a sweet lady from eBay did. They looks so cute...complete with their names on their butts!.

That is where the excitement died....

I am so incredibly disappointed in the show and the in the arena. I will never go back to see Playhouse Disney Live and I will very reluctantly go back to Citizen's Bank Arena.

The event got off to a bad start when the security wouldn't let me into the arena with my camera. They claimed my NikonD40 was a professional camera. Now, it is not the fact that they didn't let me into the arena, it was the manner in which the so called securty spoke to me in front of my children (Todd was in the car on a business call at this time, thank God). They were very rude, disrespectful and demeaning. When I asked to speak with a supervisor they actually told me that I could "AFTER" the show! Of course, that didn't sit well and I asked for their names to which they replied "It's on our badges".......Oh, it was all I could do to not lose it in front of my children.

We walked back to the car to put the camera away and decided to go in a different entrance. I did manage to meet the General Manager and spoke with him...but, he wasn't much help...so alas, I will be writing letters to everyone that is anyone within those two organizations.

Again, not because of the camera but because of the way I was treated. This was a kid's show afterall not a heavy metal concert!

Once we were inside...I thought it would be better...but it wasn't.

This was such a "dead" show.

The arena itself was fine...a bit small and the rows were incredible close together but it was okay, it worked.

But the show itself was b-o-r-i-n-g! Yes, I know I am an adult and probably shouldn't expect to me mentally stimulated by a kid's show...but even my twins weren't excited. In fact, neither were the little 2 - 4 year olds around us!

The light display and shows were very, very minimal. The sound was not the chair vibrating sound you generally get at these shows and the characters (adults dressed at the characters) were a bit scary. We paid $160 dollars for these tickets and I think we would have had a lot more fun if we had gone to see the movie, Hotel for Dogs!

Look, I am not trying to bash anyone but if you are going to spend a lot of money and to me that is a lot of money for tickets...to a kid's show. Then your kids need to really enjoy themselves.

The twins said they enjoyed it. Although they haven't spoken about the show, the venue or the characters once in the last 3 days since the event. Every mom out there means one thing - It was LAME because when kids are excited they talk non-stop.

I don't know if writing letters to Citizen's Bank or to Disney will do a thing but it will definitely make me feel better. At this point I don't want to give either company a penny more then I have already done. Which is really sad because we received Annual Passes to Disneyland as a gift!

Ugh!

* Win WIN Win *

2009-01-21T09:00:00.000-08:00

Photo Editor

I have a "FIVE" gorgeous scarves created by Penny's Pieces. One lucky reader will have their choice of scarves. You can view the scarves at GetTheCrown NOW!

How do you win?

Easy!

Step #1 -- You must be signed up with our email alerts

Step #2 -- Leave a comment below regarding either your favorite or worse hobby ever

Step #3 -- Check back on Saturday, January 31st to see the lucky winner.

It's that simple! Spread the word....Let's get the party started!

Oh, just in case you don't win they will be available to purchase at GetTheCrown.

*Winner will be chosen by random number.

**Pictures of Scarves are Now available for viewing and purchase**

Slower Then A Snail

2009-01-21T07:00:00.000-08:00

I have always wanted to knit. Even before there was a Hollywood Knitting craze it was something that I wanted to learn. When we had our PJ party a couple of days ago I jumped at the chance to learn how to knit. It came fairly easy and naturally to me and I was excited to create a "masterpiece".

My mother in law, sister in law, friends, mother, and host of other ladies can knit so I was confident that I would be able to it too! Well, it is done! I have accomplished my scarf.

Yes, I had to start over about, oh 6 or 7 times. But it is done! I see all the little imperfections but I am really proud of myself for creating something and finishing the project.

I am totally starting to love scarves. I have received a few this Holiday season and I totally enjoy accessorizing my outfits with them.

In fact, I have decided that I will be adding a couple of scarves for sale at my site, GetTheCrown. Don't worry they will not be ones that I knitted.

Actually, I am not sure if knitting is my "thing". It took a long time for me to knit ONE scarf. A hobby should be relaxing and enjoyable and I just couldn't wait to be finished! I am not very good in the patience department so I like hobbies that are quick. Where you see results sooner rather then later. Maybe that's why I like photography so much?

Check GetTheCrown and my blog on Friday to see the sensational scarves that will be up for grabs....plus I'll be giving one away in a contest soon....

Keep checking back to make sure you're the first to know!

Have a PJ Party Will Ya?

2009-01-20T12:33:00.000-08:00

Do you remember having pajama parties when you were a kid? I do...they were a blast! I wasn't allowed to go to very many but when I did go...we had fun!

There is something about being with a group of women (girls) and not worrying one bit about what you look like or what you are wearing.

Our Women's Ministry decided to host a PJ Party and it was a blast. We had DIY manicures and pedicures, knitting lessons, chick flicks galore and tons of games!

I really and truly did not want to come back home I was having so much fun.

The evening started a bit shaky because Skylar DID NOT want me to go at all! I am not sure why but when it came time for me to leave she cried and cried. She even went as far as hiding my keys, taking my purse and blocking the door with the coffee table. I am seriously talking "She Did NOT Want Me to Leave!"

My husband and I tried to console her but it wasn't working. Finally, I "bribed" her with a couple of new toys that I had stashed for her birthday and she conceded to let me go. Thank God.

When I arrived it was a great mix of ladies. Young and Older having a great time. Almost everyone was dressed in either sweats or jammies so it was very comfortable atmosphere. We had an amazing dinner of stuffed french toast, sausage and fruit. Yum, love, love breakfast for dinner!

One group of ladies was busy learning to knit. They were all very quiet as they were was busy concentrating on their knitting. I am proud to announce that I have actually almost, kind of, sort of, pretty much completed a scarf!

The next room was a big rambunctious. They were playing games like Apples to Apples and Catchphrase.

When we initially thought of the pajama party we were planning to have everyone spend the night. After some thought we decided it would be easier if people could stay as long as they would like and then feel comfortable to go home when they wanted to leave.

I believe myself and a couple of others ladies finally closed shop around midnight. Lol, not quite the party animals we thought we'd be....but it was so much fun...I would recommend you give it a try!

I don't remember having that much fun with a bunch of "girls" since I was a teenager. I want to thank Mary for taking the time to teach everyone to knit and to thank Jill for offering to give anyone a pedicure.... my toesies look so pretty!

You know it is such a blessing to know some of the most amazing women. God has truly blessed me with a great bunch of ladies to grow in grace with and to build friendships. Doesn't matter what age or color each of the ladies at that party are just beautiful...even in their jammies!

But the best part o f the entire party was when I got home, the house was NOT messy and everyone was asleep!

What a Difference a Day Makes!

2009-01-20T10:01:00.000-08:00

Wow....a lot has happened since my last post! I have learned to knit, been to a grown-up pj party, been on the radio and went to see Disney Live!

Where, oh where, do I start.......?

I haven't a clue..... but I will be talking about it all this week so keep your eyes open and don't forget to sign up for the email or readers notification because we will be having some "Rockin" contests and freebies this month. You don't want to miss out!

I did want to share a verse that has really been speaking to me today. I hope you'll enjoy it and let the Lord really touch your heart.

Right now in my life I feel that I am experiencing the act of being "sent out". I am so grateful for the family and friends that are walking with me into this new journey. It is an amazing blessing to know that God will never leave me alone. I'd love to hear how God has sent you out "two by two".

Luke 10:1-3
After this the Lord appointed seventy-two[a] others and sent them two by two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. He told them, "The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves.

DeAnna You Messed Up!

2009-01-17T06:00:00.000-08:00

I admit I really like reality TV. I am not sure how I became how I started this journey but I must confess that I am so excited because some of my favorite shows are back!

The Bachelor and American Idol are at the top of the list right now. Of course, I can not wait till this season’s Dances with The Stars. Oh my g-o-o-d-n-e-s-s how I enjoy that show.

I am a little hesitant to admit my guilty little pleasure because reality TV gets such a bad rap. But well, sorry...I like it! (I hope that doesn’t blow anyone’s image of me? lol)

I already have my pick of “favorite girl” on The Bachelor and truly hope that this is the time that Jason finds his “wife to be”. If anyone saw it last year...you know DeAnna really made Jason look foolish when he proposed and she said “no”.

American Idol is back and with a vengeance! I didn’t realize it started on Tuesday so I only got to see yesterday’s show. I’m so glad they are not showing all the horrific singers and snide comments this year...they have really scaled down that type of footage. I am thankful they did...it always broke my heart when they’d be mean to someone who really thought they could sing.

There are a couple of other newbies that I have been watching for fun. I love that I have a TiVo type of recording system with my television. It gives me the ability to live my life and keep my obligations and then...enjoy the shows I like at my convenience which is usually very early in the morning (twins are asleep) or light at night (twins are asleep)

I must, must warn you though to not watch “Superstars of Dance”....ZZZZZZ......what?
Oh, sorry...just the name puts me to sleep.

Now, I know that most of these shows are so edited that they can lead the viewer to whatever conclusion the studio execs want you to have. I don’t believe that they are really “reality”...but it’s fun!

I “WANT” to believe that Jason will find true love or that we are truly voting on a person’s talent and not looks or popularity on American Idol. It just fun!

What can I say...I still want to believe in Santa and The Easter Bunny too!

Lil' Monkey Face

2009-01-16T06:00:00.000-08:00

Last night when I came home Rylan was eager to show me a “surprise”.
“Close your eye Mama” was all she could repeat. I don’t know about you but whenever my daughters’ say close your eyes....I get scared!

I am not sure what they are going to show me and I am not very confident that they won’t walk me into a wall just because t hey think it’s funny.
So with a little trepidation and my toes curled (you know so I won’t stub them) I took her hand and blindly walked into the other room.
Rylan was so proud of what she was going to show me that she was literally beside herself with excitement. Finally, she requested that I open my eyes.

“Tada” she announced.

There on our class room white board was the cutest monkey ever. She confidently announced she drew it herself with a little assistance from daddy (He drew the banana).

“It’s a monkey, mama. It’s a Monkey and I drew it all by myself” Her little voice sang with joy.

He is just the sweetest little guy. I don’t have the heart to erase him although I know I’ll have to soon. I decided to immortalize him in a picture and to share it with you.

I think she did a really good job. Rylan, I am so proud of you!

What things has your child done or said that just made your heart melt?

I want to hear from YOU.

1 Yelp, 2 Yays and an Oh God!

2009-01-15T06:00:00.000-08:00

What a difference a haircut makes!

Have you ever wondered how God envisions you? When He looks at you do you wonder what He sees. The bible tells us that He sees the beauty in us and forgets our sins and aggressions against Him. But I've wondered what exactly is He seeing in me.

I started thinking about this recently when we took our little puppy, Lilie, to get her first "big dog" haircut. We dropped off this adorable little puppy. Just a complete ball of fur with big brown eyes. I fell in love with Lilie the moment we saw. Her coloring was so unique and she was so soft and fluffy. All the little baby puppy curls were adorable.

When we went to pick her up today...she was a completely different dog. It seemed like she had aged a few years and lost a lot of weight. Her beautiful black and brown tipped fur was gone and in exchange was a very beige, short haired dog. Frankly, I think she looks kind of unattractive (Sorry Lilie).

Rylan and Skylar are going on and on about how cute she looks and how adorable her hair is short. They are loving the fact that they have a tiny little white doggie rather then a fluffy brown doggie. They are looking at her with love in their eyes. Like real moms they are only seeing the beauty in her.

I don't dare mention that I think they really messed up her hair or that I can't believe I had to pay for it.

I can't help but be in admiration of God...knowing that He looks down on me and sees the beauty in me. He looks at me, His child, and thinks I'm marvelous. The world may see ugliness or they may be dissatisfied with me but God sees beauty...just like a loving parent.

You know God speaks to us often and in very unusual ways...if we only pause long enough to listen. I'm delighted that He spoke a moment to remind me of His love today.

I still think Lilie looked better before...but I sure am glad there are two little girls that think she is beautiful.

I am elated that the girls have a love for Lilie that looks beyond the physical. I am overjoyed that my Lord see my imperfections and loves me anyway. He calls me beloved....but....I am even more ecstatic that I don't have a hair dresser like Lilie's!

2009-01-14T09:54:00.000-08:00

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Christine
The IE Mommy

I Am Weak

2009-01-14T09:45:00.001-08:00

I have been asked to share my testimony tonight and quite frankly, I am nervous. I am not nervous about talking in public or being the center of everyone's focus for a moment. No, there is nothing to that....

I am nervous because sharing your testimony allows others to look into your "private" world. The person you were or the struggles you are having...all in the hope that they will see the vision Christ has for you or plainly to see Christ in you.

I have tried over and over to write an outline of my testimony and I am getting frustrated. God has done such amazing and wonderous things in my life that I find myself in awe over His power and graciousness. But to put it to paper is a trying task.

How do you put in ten minutes all that He has done to make you a better, more complete, humbled and saved person? How do explain in 10 minutes journeys that have taken years to complete?

Regardless of the road that has led you to Jesus...it is His spirit that keeps you there. It is the Faith you learn on your journey that keeps you moving toward the final goal. There is faith that comes from being knocked around a bit. There is truly a moment in one's life where He becomes their strong hold, their fortress. (2 Samuel 22:2 "The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my Saviour" - NLT) How do you put that into words?

I know that if my testimony affects anyone this evening it will be only because of Him!

I know that each time I share about Him...He is the one in control. They are His words that are being spoken and His Spirit that is speaking because in and of myself...I am nothing. In my life I Corinthians 1:27 explains it all. ("God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong").

He has chosen me to be His daughter, He has chosen me to be the first Christian in my family and He has chosen me to do things differently and to think differently then others in my family.

Being the youngest and the "baby" of the family...I've always wondered why I have been chosen to carry some of these tasks. But then when I stop and think about it. Truly think about it with my heart and soul...I am so grateful that I was chosen at all!

I don't know what tasks He will ask of me in the future but I know that He will never give me more then He "knows" I can handle. With all this in mind I should KNOW that He will give me the words tonight. Words that will glorify Him, words that will explain my journey and words that will show the world that I am Weak and proud of it!

For in my weakness...He is Strong!

Romans 8:26 "And the Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words".

1 Corinthians 9:22 "When I am with those who are weak, I share their weakness, for I want to bring the weak to Christ. Yes, I try to find common ground with everyone, doing everything I can to save some"

Psalm 136:23 "He remembered us in our weakness.His faithful love endures forever".

2 Corinthians 12:9 - "Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me."

Singing, Santa & Jesus!!

2009-01-13T22:28:00.001-08:00

Even though I have a digital camera I am sometimes a bit slow in getting the photos downloaded. I just had to share a few shots of my little ones enjoying the Christmas Holiday!

This year the twins participated in our Christmas Children's Choir. I was so proud of them. Of course, I snagged front row seats, brought my camera and my Flip video. They were not shy at all. Not one teeny tiny bit. I haven't a clue where they might get that nerve from???

While waiting for service to start I snapped this photo of the twins. It has quickly become one of my holiday favorites. They were so patient and good waiting between services. We were there from 2 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. When you are waiting for Santa to arrive…that is a pretty long evening.

Thanks to my niece the twins didn't have to wait till later for dinner. She arrived saving the day with a "treat" from Burger King. I love her so much for doing that especially because she didn't forget me either! In between services we snuck out to her car to enjoy the food but it was cold!

It seems my girls are more enamored with Reindeer then they are with Santa. We made Reindeer cookies and sprinkled Reindeer "food" on the lawn. We had to make sure that the Reindeers got Santa to the correct destination. It is a very simple and quick recipe...the children love it! Simple mix oats, brown sugar and regular white granulated sugar add a dash of colored cookie crystals and presto! Reindeer food!

When you are five and you get THREE Christmas each year...well....let's just say it's a bit of Heaven on Earth. This Christmas we had the honor of hosting both sides of our families for Christmas. Thankfully, one side celebrates at night and the other side celebrates in the daytime. It leaves the morning for Santa and the four of us....pretty sweet.

Christmas Eve rocked as they un-wrapped their Barbie Hot Tub Bus and a Swim to Me Puppy. Christmas morning began with a mad dash down the stairs and hallway. It was move or get moved as they rushed to the goodies Santa left them. Our afternoon Christmas brought Baby Swim A lot (are you seeing the swimming theme here?).

Rylan and Skylar are STILL taking gifts out of boxes. Our trash man must quiver at the thought of coming to our house. Someone must really tell me why one Barbie box has a ZILLION ties and twisties!

Every year each twin buys a present for the other one. This is a lot more difficult then you could imagine. It's hard to get them alone and even harder to get them to focus on a gift for their sister and not for their own. This photo of them hugging is one of my favorite photos as they were truly thanking each other from their hearts. It was a rare "sister" moment and I was so proud.

I remember getting excited about Christmas. I anxiously anticipated the presents, lights, food and family. It is still a lot of the same joy and excitement as when I was a child but now I get to enjoy it again through my little ones. But the one big, main difference is that they understand...it is truly about Jesus!

Presents are great! Lights are Beautiful! But Jesus...HE is IT! Over and over through out the holiday the twins and I talked about his birth. They are learning about His mother, Mary and Joseph....how he was born to die so that we may live. I knew the girls had that in their mind. The seed was planted in their hearts and for that reason I could enjoy the Holidaythrough their eyes.

They are five...I'm not going to take away the twinkle and joy of receiving presents and sparkling lights but I will make sure that they are realizing the true light and present is found in Jesus Christ and not just for the evening but for always.

As a Christian mom it is struggle some times to find the balance between the joys of childhood. Balancing Santa, the Easter Bunny and the Tooth fairy with the Truth of Jesus, the Cross and Salvation is a delicate matter.

But if you look at their faces in these photos...well, it looks like God has been guiding us in the right direction....

Lil' IE Mommy

2009-01-11T23:25:00.001-08:00

Ok everyone... I took a daring moment to commandeer my wife's blog and share a little tidbit from home. I'm not sure how Christine is going to feel about having a guest blogger but here it goes...(I'll keep it short, just in case)

I'm so proud of my daughter Skylar! She has such a BIG heart for others. Earlier today her face was scratched while playing outside in the backyard (bad dog Lilie!)...hence the two Snoopy band-aids on her cheek. But she's a Trooper... and so after the girls took a rare Sunday afternoon nap, she woke up ready to show some affection to the rest of us. Rylan got the best part of the deal, though. One little cough from Rylan and Skylar was all over it. She quickly went into "pretend nurse" mode and told us all that she was going to be the BIG sister tonight and take care of Rylan. Oh Boy... did she!

She "voluntold" her to "lay down on the couch" so she could keep an eye on her. Then she went to get her favorite blanket, her favorite cup (with lemonade), her favorite snack, and a comfy pillow. She then let her decide on any TV channel she wanted to watch! She even said, "I'm going to let my sister sleep in my bed tonight! WOW...I was impressed! Remember, Skylar was the one who used up half of the first-aid kit just a few hours earlier. Of course, Rylan was L-O-V-I-N-G it so much that Skylar kept pampering her even more.

As I was watching this unfold it made me swell with pride to know that my girls have such tender hearts. Mom (IE Mommy) has done a SUPERB job teaching/showing them how to treat others. Where else could they learn how to be such great mini-moms? Thanks Honey...you get an A+ in my book!

And Skylar... even though I'm so proud of you , it's time to let Daddy watch TV...I need to check the football playoff schedule for next week! :)

Join Me on an Adventure!

2009-01-11T20:16:00.000-08:00

Woohoo! I am so excited...I do have more then half a brain! I figured out how to create a "Subscribe" button! Yes!

Ok, maybe for some of you that is not a big deal...but believe me to a mom of twins that runs on caffeine most of the day....that is a BIG deal!

Generally, I am the type of person that forgets what she is talking about in the "M-I-D-D-L-E" of a sentence.

A big thanks to Angela and my dear hubby! I think we are set and ready to ROCK!!!

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Mama, I Rock!

2009-01-11T14:57:00.001-08:00

I am so proud of myself. If I could I would give myself a pat on the back! Ok, well...technically I can do t hat but well, you know what I mean!

The twins were invited to a birthday party this weekend and the theme was ballerinas. The invitation requested that all little girls dress as ballerinas.

Although we have had this invitation and planned on the party waaaay before Christmas...I procrastinated and did not think of what the girls were going to wear until the night before.

I grew up watching my sisters whip together dresses and costumes for their children so I knew that I had it in me. But the last time I made a tutu the twins complained that they were too itchy and wore them a whole 5 minutes!

Believe me it was a lot of work for them to wear them for only 5 minutes. Needless to say I never made another one. When they received the invitation they actually asked me to create a tutu for each of them. They didn't pose it as if I couldn't or wouldn't...it was a very confident..."Mama, you need to make us tutus".

Friday night I sat down with a every piece of tulle that I could find in my sewing room. I knew I didn’t have enough for the tutus to be one solid color so each daughter ended up with a multicolored tutu.

Before I started I offered up a quick prayer and started on my journey of creating a tutu for each of the twins.

It took a couple of hours but I am so proud of myself! They were a hit at the party! I was asked where I purchased them and was happy to announce I made them!

The most exciting part was that Rylan and Skylar really loved them. I heard them run downstairs and tell my husband “Mommy can sew great. She should be a fashion designer.” I received hugs and kisses and was offered my very own ballet recital!

I know when I have checked on eBay or online stores for tutus they are crazy expensive! I am thinking that I will post them on my website, GetTheCrown, and give a shot at selling them. I will make sure that mine are affordable. I know there are a lot of moms out there like me that love to have cute things for their littles ones but don't want to 'break the bank' by doing it.

I am not sure why this particular creation is so exciting for me...except that this is one of the first things that the twins have ever asked me to make and they were so happy about them. Just for a moment, I felt like I hung the moon for my girls.

It was awesome....tomorrow I might feel like I am a big failure as a mom but today....well, today...I ROCK!

WIN!!

2009-01-10T13:18:00.000-08:00

This is an amazing opportunity to win some Fantastic L'Oreal products.

Swing on by A Mom in Red High Heels and join the fun!

Thanks Tammy for such a fun contest!

L'Oreal "LIVE"

2009-01-09T08:07:00.000-08:00

My friend Tammy, A Mom in Red High Heels, has been honored with the amazing opportunity to blog "LIVE" at the Golden Globes with L'Oreal cosmetics!

I am beyond excited for her and so very proud of her. What an incredible moment!

If you have a moment swing by her blog and check out all the exciting things that will be happening!

Why I Have Gray Hair

2009-01-08T09:23:00.000-08:00

There are two comments that I always get about the twins:
1) They are beautiful
2) They are so smart!

What I never hear from people is the comment "They are so mischievous". Must be because family, friends and teachers don't really know them...or at least not as well as I do.

Go with me back in time....5 1/2 years ago when I had deep brown hair...not a gray one in site.

Then, "IT" happened. I had children. Oh, you might be laughing and thinking "She's crazy"...but I would swear and promise to you that I remember seeing my first gray hair very, very shortly after the twins turned one...which is also about the time I was able to take a shower! (Not really!)

If you have watched any I LOVE LUCY shows you might remember the episode where she was babysitting twins and they tied her up! They convinced tricked her into playing cowboys and indians and were actually going to light her on fire! Somedays, especially with babysitters, I think I am going to come home to that scenario.

What can I say...I am outnumbered. From the get go their minds have acted as one. Don't get me wrong, they are very different individuals but.....when they want to get into mischief....they are on the same road.

I know you don't believe me. I can see it in your eyes as you are reading this. "What? Oh no, not those sweet dear little girls." You are saying to yourself, aren't you?

Let me give you an example. A couple of days ago the twins were happily playing with their makeup kit that Santa bought them for Christmas. Very cute little kits that have a pretend blush, eyeshadow and mini lotions. For a day or two they are happy "gettting ready" for the day each morning alongside Mommy. Putting on fresh perfume for daddy when he got home...being the ever perfect little ladies. They were being so cute about it.

Now, fast forward to Wednesday....I am in the living room watching my TiVo'd show "The Bachelor" (So much more on that later!) when Skylar comes and sits by me. Now, when only twin comes into a room, alone...something is up!

Our conversation went something like this:

Mommy: Skylar where is Rylan?
Skylar: "She is making me a present".
Mommy: "Did you leave her alone with glue or scissors?"
Skylar: "No, mama."

Ok, so now, I don't know if I just spaced out but I DID NOT IMMEDIATELY GO UPSTAIRS TO CHECK!

When I did make it upstairs I was expecting paper and stickers to be everywhere. Boy, was I in for a surprise!

Rylan came running up to me, grinning from ear to ear, so very proud of herself!
"Look, Mommy...I made this for sister"

They had found two empty white boxes left over from Christmas and gleefully covered them with body lotion and eyeshadow. Sprinkled body glitter on every part (including the carpet and dresser). There were swirls of pinks, purples and blue make up on each present. The present was expertly doused with "all" of their mini body sprays and gels. It was colorful mess to say the least.

Rylan was so proud. I couldn't hide my shock and unfortunately my disappointment. Poor Rylan, she was heartbroken.

I pulled myself together and did the "good" mommy thing. 1) I didn't yell and 2) I told her how pretty they looked and gently explained how that is NOT what we do with our makeup.

Sadly, I had to take the makeup kits away. But to my surprise they were very good regarding the punishment. They picked up every make up item and empty bottle (lots of them) and brought them to me so the could be "safe" until they were a bit older.

I guess I am going to have to call Santa and give him a little "what-for" talking. I mean, what was that jolly old man thinking? "My" twins with makekup kits!!!

I know that I must have gained about 15 new gray hairs on that day! Never mind my blood pressure.

Oh well...I hear them waking up now so I'd better get off the computer and, ouch....dang it....I feel a few more hairs turning gray as I type.....oh, motherhood! Ain't it grand?

lol....

Thorny Ground

2009-01-07T10:39:00.000-08:00

Are you a thorn? Do you sometimes act like a thorn? Well, If I am to be honest then I have to admit that I am a thorn.

I chose to allow other things on Monday and Tuesday to crowd out my quiet time with the Lord. I wish I could say that it was an accident but in reality, it was my choice. I chose to make other things priority and before you know it my morning was gone. The children were awake, school needed to be done and bam, the day was over. No time for Jesus.

That really stinks! There isn't any other way to put it.

Today I sat down and my first thought and prayer was that I didn't want two days to turn into a week and then a month and so on. I was asking God to forgive me and help me to have the discipline that is required to spending with Him daily. I need it. I crave it.

I can feel my soul become dry (imagine a sponge without water) when I am not in the word. When I get in the word, I can feel the Holy Spirit sweep over me. I feel refreshed, redeemed and revitalized. It is not a "magic" moment...it is pure and simple...my soul longing for what only can be filled with Jesus Christ.

When I sat down to do my devotion the verse for today was:

Matthew 13:22

The thorny ground represents those who hear and accept the Good news, but all too quickly the message is crowded out by the cares of this life and the lure of wealth, so no crop is produced.

I have never seen myself as a thorn but there it was clear as day and in black and white. It was exactly what I did on Monday and Tuesday.

In the past when I have seen this verse I have thought of people that long to be "rich & famous". You know people that are more concerned with a Louis Vuitton purses, the latest Botox or a fancy new Mercedes.

Not little ole' me.

I have never thought of the housewife who wakes up thinking of the chores that need to be done, or the errands, or (gasp) what to blog for the day!

I am guilty of waking up as if someone shot a starter pistol.

The gun shoots off and you jump out of bed, quickly you go potty, brush your teeth, take a shower, get dressed and start the laundry or the house cleaning....maybe you make breakfast for your husband and children...then you start working on the list of errands. Do you have a doctor's appointments this week, do we need to go the grocery store, etc. Before you realize it, it is lunch time and then dinner time and time for bed.

I never thought of the "care of this world" being the little cares a stay at home mom might have but guess what? They are!

Whatever it is that will take your eyes off the cross and your time away from God will be a "care of this world".

Look, I don't think that I am a thorn 24/7 but even if it is occasionally...well, what am I missing? What I am missing in learning about God, What am I missing in growing with Jesus? What am I missing in witnessing and being a light to this world?

A LOT!

I know how my daily life is different when I spend time with Jesus. I know His faithfulness when times are tough. I know that He is the one that I run to with life is good, sad, hard and happy.

No, I don't want to be a thorn (once in a while or ever). If you see yourself as a thorn too, take heart...God isn't done with us.

Philippians 1:6

"and I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns".

God will continue to form us in His image. Cutting off the dead branches, refining our hearts and creating us more and more to be like him.....We only have to allow Him the opportunity and

create the TIME.

Goodbye Vacation

2009-01-05T17:09:00.001-08:00

"G” is for Giraffe

2 + 2 = 4

Yes, school is back in session. Wow, those two weeks of vacation went fast. I can only imagine how public and private school teachers feel when they return to look into 30 little faces after two weeks of vacation! Yowsers!

The last two weeks were rather carefree. Yes, they were hectic and a bit chaotic but there was a carelessness to them because we didn’t have school.

I must applaud the twins though. They did really well for the first day. They remembered a lot more then I gave them credit to remember.

I take a lot of comfort in knowing that God will be with us each step of the way. Sometimes I think “Oh no, I am so messing this up!”. Then Rylan or Skylar will surprise me with something that shows me they are really learning. Then I am just glowing with pride. I swear that both my daughters are destined to be Noble Peace Prize winners!

To be honest though even more then teaching them to read or write my heart pounds with excitement or joy when I hear them speaking of Jesus. I am constantly amazed at what they can comprehend about the bible, Jesus, the resurrection and even Satan. They blow me away with their insight. Maybe, that is one of the reasons that Jesus tells us that we should be like little children when we come to him. Such trust, simplicity and faith….Awesome!

…”Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these”
Matthew 19:14 and Mark 10:14

I really don’t know much about life…but I do know that when it comes to my children I have to keep plugging away, just like the Little Engine that Could. Everything I can do “now” to affect their mind, their spirit and their personality (unfortunately, good or bad) will effect their life and their adulthood. Man, that’s responsibility!

I am so grateful that God thinks I am worthy to be their teacher and their mom. Even if we weren’t a home school family that would still be my role and I am so grateful He is with me every step of the way.

“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.”
Proverbs 22:6

A New Way to Look at Philippians

2009-01-03T06:00:00.000-08:00

I am currently reading a book titled, "Loving your Husband". It is a bible study written by Cynthia Heald. I have a couple more weeks until our regular women's bible study begins at church so I thought I'd take some time and complete this study.

I know the basics of what this study is going to tell me. That God and only God can be perfect and fulfill my needs. But, even though I know that...it is interesting and challenging to learn more of the word and the intimate verses that remind me that only Jesus can be my everything. It is too much of a strain to expect a husband, (Even one as wonderful as mine), to be all that I need in life.....frankly, it's not fair for me to expect it.

So imagine the bump on my head as I began chapter 1. God obviously has a plan for me to learn something different and to see it in a much different light then what I was expecting. The study starts out with the story of the women at the well (John 4:7-30) and continues with different scripture...I was in an "uh-huh, ok..I've read this before" mentality when "BAMM!" Here came the 2x4!

Philippians 2:3-4
"Don't be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on others. Be humble, thinking of others as better then yourself. Don't think only about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and what they are doing."

I have this passage underlined and highlighted in my bible. I have read it 100's of times. But today...it just popped. It was different...it was talking to me not just as Christian but as a wife. In my heart today it read something more like this...

"Don't be selfish; don't live to make a good impression on Todd. Be humble, thinking of Todd as better then yourself. Don't think only about your own affairs, but be interested in his, too, and what he is doing."

I never really thought of myself as selfish when it comes to my husband or even really trying to impress him. Yet, I can't deny that more often then not...I am telling him of my thoughts rather then listening to his and yes, if I am being honest...I think very highly of what he thinks of me...

I don't know... but this verse really got me saying "mmmm???" today.

I'll let you know if I get any more head bumps as I finish this study.

See You in My Mailbox,
Christine
IE Mommy
(aka Mama Hawk)

Spread the Word!

2009-01-02T08:46:00.000-08:00

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Christine
IE Mommy
(aka MamaHawk)

Three Things on My Mind.....(not much else!)

2009-01-02T07:54:00.001-08:00

I know it is Friday but with all the Holiday stuff it seems like it is Monday. Anyone else feel that way?

I woke up thinking that I really really wanted to go the bookstore and spend my certificate that I got for Christmas. But, well....it's cold out there!

Anyway, that isn't at all what I am thinking about right now. Nope, I have had three random thoughts that I just had to share. None of these connect to each other but well, they are just what I am thinking about right now. Like the title says...not much more in there at 7:30 in the morning...other then I really really R-E-A-L-L-Y needing a Coke or Pepsi!

So the first thing...Does anyone else care that Mervyn's closed? I am so sad. Mervyn's was a dear friend. I remember shopping for school clothes with my Mom at the Mervyn's in San Bernardinon on 2nd Street. That was when it first opened and it was a brand new store and had the most rocking clothes! Mervyn's and I separated for a while as I discovered Nordstrom's and Malls. When I became a mom we reconnected and now, my dear friend is forever gone! Now where am I going to shop for all my "hip and cool" clothes....yeah, right, okay no one believes that line...but really where am I going to shop now????

Speaking of friends....what do you call someone that will travel to Europe and take the time to send your kids postcards? I call that a F-R-I-E-N-D! Here is a tip for all you non-mommies out there. Want to show your friends with kids you really care? Do something for their children. Really, I am not joking. As a mom I don't give a hoot if I get a present or people compliment me...but tell my twins they look cute, make a big deal of the colored picture or friendship bracelet they made you (even if it looks like they made it with their feet! I promise you they didn't, really!), or bring them a little gift....You have my heart! Bend at your knees to talk to them rather than stooping or looking down at them. Make them feel like "real" people and you will ROCK in my book. I was thinking of all the amazing people God has placed in our lives within the last two years and I am beyond blessed and floored.

The last thinking on mind (because I am really craving a soda...with extra caffeine...any Amens out there?) Psalm 37!

This is a beautiful verse that my niece sent to me. I just had to share it with you. Read it slowly and allow the words to sink into your heart and soul.

Psalm 37

5 Commit your way to the LORD;
trust in him and he will do this:

6 He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn,
the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.

7 Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him;
do not fret when men succeed in their ways,
when they carry out their wicked schemes.

8 Refrain from anger and turn from wrath;
do not fret—it leads only to evil.

9 For evil men will be cut off,
but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.

10 A little while, and the wicked will be no more;
though you look for them, they will not be found.

11 But the meek will inherit the land
and enjoy great peace.

12 The wicked plot against the righteous
and gnash their teeth at them;

13 but the Lord laughs at the wicked,
for he knows their day is coming.

Verses 8 & 9 really speak to me, not because I think I am wicked (well, better ask my kids first..on second thought, please don't) but because I know all too well how quickly a temper or an attitude can lead to ruining a day or creating turmoil for your family.

Sometimes...something as simple as seeing someone that has hurt your or caused you pain can ignite that fire. But, I don't want to be cut off from the Lord. Not for one moment. Have I ever been cut off? Of course, I am human. I was born with a sin nature and have the ability to think of "me first" more often then I want to admit.

I have had moments in my life where I have had to dust myself off and come humble before the throne because I "knew" I was not glorifying God. As my husband say, when "I got hit by a 2x4".

Proverbs 24:16 Reminds us "...for though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity".

Yes, there are times you have to crawl back, ask forgiveness and start again. Verse 13 reminds us that God is the Alpha and Omega (Revelation 22:13). He truly knows the "end" for each of us. I'm glad that I can rest in the knowledge that He is securely watching over me and out for me.

Now, I am going to get my soda. I am totally addicted to sodas (Please blame my sisters and mom for this fault...note....you DO NOT put soda into children's bottles....ahm....mom! lol but hey, those were the days before seat belts, bicycle helmets, vaccination protest and so on and so on...but I seemed to come out okay...did I mention I wanted a soda?)

Happy New Year

2009-01-01T15:02:00.001-08:00

2009! Do you remember the drama of 2000? So what do you do to ring in the new year? Are you a resolution maker? Do you determine to lose weight, clean out the garage, be organized? What?

I am a believer in creating goals but not really a fan of resolutions. This year, though, I have decided that I need to learn to be more disciplined. Of course, discipline is not something that is easily learned. How necessary it is though, don't you think?

I mean...with out discipline how do you create the quiet time you need with the Lord? How do you set boundaries for yourself or your children? How do you create time for your self, for exercise or date nights?

If you know me, then you know all about my "master calendar". It is a sort of running joke with my friends, but I need that calendar without it I am not even sure I know the right way to breathe, lol.

With that calendar in mind I decided that this year I need discipline. You see it is easy to schedule in daily quiet time or exercise but it is just as easy to cross if off the list or move it to the next day.

I want to grow as a Christian woman....I desire to be the Proverbs 31 women and lead my children to a meaningful, life-altering relationship with God. I want to be the helpmate that God created me to be for my husband (Genesis 2:18).

I can only be those things when my time with the Lord is first and foremost. When it is what I desire and crave for first thing in the morning. Are you in that position? Is the Lord's word what you crave for first thing in the morning?

Being thinner, being healthier, more patient, more discerning, more calm and on and on....can only begin with the One who knows me intimately, my creator (Psalm 139).

Yes, I have a lot of goals for 2009. I am so excited because it seems like He is creating my schedule to be freed of so much that I get goose bumps thinking what He will put in those free times. I am excited because my daughters are becoming little girls and getting a true grasp of the world around them. Baby questions are being replaced with real adult observations. I am excited because I am married to a man of God. One who values me and loves me...even when we argue! Yikes, don't gasp of course, we argue! I am excited because I love my church and the friends God has placed in my life. I am excited because I have a family that is close.

But I am excited because this year belongs to Him!

Happy New Year....I pray that every blessing of God's will be yours.

Christine
IE Mommy
(a.k.a. MamaHawk)

Jenny & God...

2008-12-31T16:10:00.000-08:00

It will be a brand new year in less then 10 hours! I am so excited about 2009...but more on that later. I wanted to stroll down memory lane today and found some favorites from back in the day!

Each year brings something exciting and new and I love it. Good or bad it is another chapter in your book of life.

But it is fun to cruise down memory lane and remember the "blasts from the past". Listening to the sounds of the 80's reminds me of being young and well, young! Driving around in my brand new red mini truck (remember the mini truck craze?) Big hair, big shirts, big belts and leggings or pegged jeans! Oh I was so cool! It makes me sick to think of the size of my ego, lol. But all in all it was a part of growing up and becoming the woman God has formed me into.

Stroll with me....back in time...to the days of The Cosby Show, Molly Ringwald, Rubiks Cube and L.A. Disco. Yikes...was that really dancing? In every high school, even my Christian one, you had groups of Mod, Punk, New Wave and Preppy.

867-5309/Jenny - Do those numbers sound familiar to you? If so, then you are a child of the 80's and remember the infamous song by Tommy Tutone.

How about Jessie's Girl by Rick Springfield. Are you kidding me? I would have died to be Jessie's Girl! I don't think Rick Springfield had much talent as far as singing goes...but that face! Catch me I am about to faint!

Another song I loved was by Human Leaque "Don't you Want Me?" The song seems like a typical break up song. You know how they went...girl figures out she is better off without this boyfriend and she dumps him. He is desperate and will do anything to get her back. When you watch the video though....well, I don't get it! What the heck are the talking about???? Someone help!

Stacy Q had a great song to dance to...Two of Hearts...was the perfect song to play while driving around in my little truck!

As much fun as it is to stroll back to the 80's....I wouldn't let my girls listen to one of these songs at all! No wonder my parents were always telling us to "turn it off".

Think about the lyrics....YIKES!

Poor "Jenny" had her name plastered on the wall! Every teenage girl's nightmare! But here's the thing....was she supposed to find comfort in this "guy" calling her? Listen to the lyrics again...sounds a bit like a stalker...but then that's a mom talking now. Back then I was like everyone else singing "867-5309!"

Maybe Rick Springfield should have thought better of smashing the bathroom mirror with his guitar if he really wanted Jessie's girl to like him. Of course, the reference to her body make me blush as a mom. I don't even remember hearing those words as a teenager.

"Don't you want me?"...ok, the boy threatens that they will both be sorry! As a teenager I remember thinking "oh, he'll probably date another girl" as a mom I think "Will he kill her? Will he bomb the school?...oh, dear!"

And don't get the mom in me started with Stacy Q!

lol, It is fun to remember the good old days. The sweet memories of growing up are all involved with those songs but I cringe at what I was listening to.

Yes, being young is sweet...but being who I am now...is sweeter. My joy and love comes from the Lord and knowing that forever in his eyes I am a Princess, I am beautiful and I am special....yes, maybe I don't weigh 100 lbs anymore....I'm not Miss Teen County of San Bernardino any longer...but I am something better....I am the daughter of the king. I am forgiven!

When I think of my teen years...I smile. They will always be special. When I think of myself as a young adult...I feel my heart beat because that was when my journey with my husband began....but, when I think of myself now...I cry....because I am a mom, a wife, a women and more then anything a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17) being made over and over to glorify God.

I am not worthy of His love or His blessings but he gives them because He wants to (Ephesians 1:2-4) and that makes me cry and smile and laugh!

I have know the Lord for over 24 years and I can only praise Him and look forward to each new day. Each new year in my "God's Tale".....

Tonight when the clock strikes 12:01 I don't want to be watching Times Square. I really don't care what Ryan Seacrest will be doing... I want to be praising my Lord...the reason for 2009!

Take a moment to listen to "these" songs......and be blessed this evening and for all of 2009.

Open the Eyes of My Heart

Come, Now is the Time to Worship

I am Free *This is the most amazing song....

Blessed Be Your Name *Dedicated to my dad, Martin

How Great is Our God

Indescribable

Holy is the Lord, God Almighty

Our Father *By Two or More

Lord, I Lift Your Name on High

Here I am to Worship

Happy New Year!
Christine
IE Mommy (aka MamaHawk)

It's Christmas and ..... You'd Better Be Good!

2008-12-24T11:34:00.000-08:00

"What do you mean Christmas Eve is today?"

"Yep, and they say we "s-t-i-l-l" have to be good!"

"Man, that's a lot of work for some toys!"

Ok, I really don't know what the conversation was between these two when the photo was taken. But considering how they are acting today...this might have been the "Real" conversation.

Regardless...I am ready for Christmas!

Yep, you heard me...done...ready...and willing to enjoy the day.

Presents wrapped, house cleaned, children washed and food cooked! Praise the Lord!

Like a fool, I stayed up till 3 a.m. last night "making" a present and putting together the special Santa presents that will be opened on Christmas morning.

Yes, I am a glutton for punishment...but I did get to sleep in until 9:30 a.m. so that worked out okay.

I hope that each of you will have an incredible and blessed Christmas. Read the gospel of Luke tonight before you open presents...it will help to bring into focus the "real" gift of the this Holiday!

God bless each of you and Merry CHRISTmas!

Christine

IE Mommy Blogger

Help me to DECIDE!

2008-12-23T10:30:00.000-08:00

I started working blogs on both BlogSpot and WordPress and really don't know which one I like more.

Give me a hand....which blog site do you think looks or works better?

Click here to view the WordPress IE Mommy Blog.

Of course, you are currently reading the BlogSpot IE Mommy Blog.

I really need your help...because I will drive myself crazy trying to figure out which is the best.

So, give me some feedback...please!

I WON!!!

2008-12-23T09:53:00.000-08:00

Do you have any clue how excited I am right now?? Well, okay probably not...but I am!

I so love winning contests and I won one today!! I won SIX pairs of Chic Bud ear phones!

This is so rocking awesome! I have a pair of Chic Buds for my cell phone and they are so perfect. You get great reception and a little bit of "bling" to spice it up!

When I saw that Set Your Style was having a give away...I just had to enter! When I found out I won...well...let's just say I was doing the happy dance around the living room!

The fun part about this contest was entering. You had to create your "perfect" New Year's Eve outfit in order to be eligible to win. I decided to go with a classy, elegant yet sexy look. I wanted something that I would really wear on New Year's Eve.

Why did I go with a basic black dress...well, frankly you can't have too many black dresses or black pants in your closet as far as I am concerned and this one was created in a way to accent your assets and hide some flaws. Of course, if you know me at all, then I have to have a classic pair of very high pointed toe heels!

I am so excited!!!!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

2008-12-23T08:06:00.000-08:00

They say "All good things must come to an end". I am not sure who "they" happen to be...but it appears "they" are correct.

Today was my last blog for Inland Empire Family Magazine. 2009 will bring a new blogging team to the magazine and website. I hope that they will enjoy their new adventure as much as I did. I know I will be reading.

This past year has been so much fun. It has been a great privilege to be a "mini-mini-celebrity" in the I.E. I love sharing my life with the readers which is why I decided to continue blogging. I never imagined myself being a blogger and yet, here I am...blogging again. What can I say, it's fun!

I am glad to have you on this new adventure. It is excited to have you come along. The site will have an official launch in January. When the craziness of the holidays has slowed down a bit.

I very thankful and grateful to Churm Media and all the people that help to create the website and magazine (Jeff, Kathleen, Colleen, Kim, Craig, Amy, Kristen and the list goes on). To have had the privilege to work with amazing moms such as Monica, Aileen, Kathleen and Lily...well, what can I say the "Original Mom Squad" R-O-C-K-S!

With only 2 days left before the big guy in the red suit arrives...my life is a whirlwind of activity. Trying to get all the food prepared, cookies baked, last minute presents to buy and on and on...I hardly have time to breath. But I love it!

I am giddy with anticipation for 2009. I am eager to see what the Lord has in store for me. My goal is to continue to home school and work in ministry at my church. As long as God will use me I hope to remain involved in women's and kid's ministry at church and we only 11 1/2 more years of home school....so I think we are good there.

This will be the first year...in a long time...that both sides of the family will be attending Christmas Eve services together. I am very excited about that. The twins will be part of the children's choir. They are so jazzed about singing in front of everyone! What can I say it's in their blood.

Christmas is a time for forgiveness and fellowship and I hope that you'll find that joy this year. I have listed some great churches that have amazing Christmas Eve services. I pray that you'll attend one of them.

Wishing each of you the most amazing CHRISTmas and New Year.

Hope to see you in my Mailbox,

Christine

"The" IE Mommy

2008-12-18T07:35:00.000-08:00

You know there are mornings where you just "sit" there. Maybe at the table drinking coffee or in front of the computer or television. You know you have a long list of things to accomplish but truly have absolutely no goal or desire to do them. That is how I feel today. I'm exhausted. I want to take the twins to visit Santa but frankly, don't really care if we get there today.

It rained and snowed all day yesterday and it is cold. I know, perfect weather for Santa, but not perfect weather for this home grown IE Mommy.

Welcome to my world! I am the "IE Mommy" formerly the IE Mom blogger from Inland Empire Family Magazine but alas, things change and life revolves into other forms and here I am!

I fell in love with blogging last year and was offered an amazing opportunity to blog for IE Family Magazine. It wasn't a permanent job so I was not surprised when they chose to create a new group of moms for 2009.

What did surprise me was the joy I found in blogging. Yikes....did I really say that?
I guess I did because here I am.

I hope you enjoy my journeys, joys and trials as a mom of twins living in the Inland Empire!

The IE Mommy

The IE Mommy Has Moved....

Ultimate Blog Party!!!

The IE Mommy is Moving.....

My God's Tale

S.W.A.K Carnival and ChicBud Giveaways!

Wordless Wednesday

Through the Eyes of A Child

The Circle of Life = Motherhood

Blast from the Past and Recycled Colds

Sweet & Simple

What You Need

1 can (16 oz.) pear slices, drained

8 NILLA Wafers, crushed

1/2 cup thawed COOL WHIP Whipped Topping

1/8 tsp. ground cinnamon

Too Old to Be Cool?

Let Your Chest Speak For You

The Professor of Protection

How Quickly We Can Fade.....

I'm Trying to Remember....

Horsin' Around #52

Sex & Marriage? Yes, they go together!

Wordless Wednesday

Spotlight on "The Sassy Chic Shop"

An Interview with Kirk Cameron of Fire Proof

Kurt Warner...

Superbowl Sunday

Nominate ME!

Calling All Mommies of Little Girls....

and The Winner is......

Poop and Pee (Yes, you read right!)

I Am In Love...

Check Out This Contest.....

Great Sites? LMK!!!

ICE That Will Save Your Life

FINALLY! Pictures of Prizes are Up!

Reading With My Heart

The Professor is Starting Class!

FAMILY

Let Go Monkey!

I Was On The Radio!

Playhouse Disney Live? More like Dead!

*** Win ** WIN ** Win ***

Slower Then A Snail

Have a PJ Party Will Ya?

What a Difference a Day Makes!

DeAnna You Messed Up!

Lil' Monkey Face

1 Yelp, 2 Yays and an Oh God!

I Am Weak

Singing, Santa & Jesus!!

Lil' IE Mommy

Join Me on an Adventure!

Mama, I Rock!

WIN!!

L'Oreal "LIVE"

Why I Have Gray Hair

Thorny Ground

Goodbye Vacation

A New Way to Look at Philippians

Spread the Word!

Three Things on My Mind.....(not much else!)

Happy New Year

Jenny & God...

It's Christmas and ..... You'd Better Be Good!

Help me to DECIDE!

I WON!!!

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

* Win WIN Win *